Luke 15:25-32
“The Other Sin”
Pastor Jerry Hoek
Introduction:
Over the past year one of the things I’ve been emphasizing is discipleship so that we can become better and more faithful followers of Christ. So this morning I want to give a check-up quiz to see how we are doing.
For each of the following things, give yourself 5 points and we’ll tally it up in the end. Ready?
1) You read the Bible every day.
2) You pray every day for at least 15 minutes.
3) You attend Sunday School regularly.
4) You attend worship services at least 3 times a month.
5) You serve on a Ministry Team, 5 points for each team.
6) You belong to a small group for study and prayer; 5 points for each group.
7) And for 50 extra bonus points, you’re going to Kenya next week!
Ok, how did you do?
Welcome to the world of the older brother!
These are the kinds of things an older brother today would have been thinking as his father threw the party for the wild rebellious son who has just returned. He was doing all the right stuff that a good person should be doing. Yet we see today, as we conclude our study of the parable of the Prodigal Son that he too, in his own way, is rejecting the love and grace that his father has to offer.
If we are honest we may feel that the older brother has a point, but the point is not getting what we deserve. The point is that we get what we don’t ever deserve and that is God’s love and grace. Let’s read this story once more so we can see the amazing love and grace of this father. Read Luke 15:11-32.
I. The Older Brother
II. The Older Brother’s Problem
III. The Father’s Grace
IV. Our Need for Our Father’s Grace
I. Let’s first briefly look at The Older Brother in this story.
Now again realize that this story is not about the sons primarily. The prodigal son and the older brother play a very important role in the point that Jesus is making, but their role is only a part of the larger point. We have seen over and over that the story Jesus tells is primarily about the father’s great love.
The younger son had rebelled against his father and now has returned to his father. The father is thrilled to see him, accepts him as his son even though he did rebel against him. And the father orders a calf to be killed for there will be a celebration!
Now all kinds of activity begins as preparations are made. Then, just as the meat was finished roasting, loud and joyous music would be played. This would announce to the whole village that there was going to be a great celebration and that everyone was invited. This would likely begin just as the workers would be coming home from working in the fields. The party has not yet begun even though the music is playing.
And it is at this point that the older brother comes home. When he comes he meets a servant, or more accurately one of the young boys gathered outside of the home, and asks what the occasion is. The verb for asking implies that he is asking a number of probing questions of the young boy. A son with a normal relationship to a father would simply go in and join the party, not linger outside filled with suspicion.
The boy explains the cause for celebration is the fact that his younger brother has returned home. The older brother, however, has a major problem with this, becomes angry and refuses to join the party.
II. What was The Older Brother’s Problem?
This son is doing more here than just pouting. When there was a banquet, the oldest son was to greet the guests and make sure that the feast went smoothly with the guests as far as their needs are concerned. By refusing to go in he is neglecting his duty as the oldest son.
Even more, he is publicly embarrassing and humiliating his father by refusing to go in. Even if he had a problem with how the younger son was received, he should still go in to the party and take up his grievances with the father later on. He should not be making a scene so publically in front of the father’s guests. Based on Eastern culture, this is almost as serious a break with the father as the younger son’s.
Notice also how the older son condemns himself as he describes his relationship with his father. “Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you.” He doesn’t address his father as father but as a subordinate by saying, “Look!” He sees their relationship as “master-slave” rather than “father-son.”
He goes on to say that he never disobeyed his fathers orders. He always did all the work that was given him to do. This too is something that a slave would say rather than a son. Moreover, this is simply false since he has just greatly insulted his father!
Then he accuses his father of favoritism: “You never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends.” He doesn’t ask that his father throw a party for him with the family; he wants a party with his friends; he wants nothing more to do with his real family and disowns them in effect. What will make him joyous is not the return of this brother but a party with HIS friends.
Moreover, the charges against his brother are exaggerated. The older brother accuses the younger of being with prostitutes, but that was never said. He is trying to get his father to reject his younger brother by exaggerating his guilt.
The older son is operating on the basis of not the relationship, but works. He has done all the right things but now someone else gets the reward. He has done all the right things in his eyes, but it is still not enough to obtain the father’s favor.
Now we can understand the older brother’s problem to some extent because it doesn’t seem fair. The father is not only welcoming him home but there is a financial aspect to this. The younger son may again receive a third of the inheritance, but it is now greatly diminished. This may be cutting into the older brother’s share! And that doesn’t seem fair.
More than that, he has been doing all the right stuff by working hard in the fields. He’s been obeying his father to the letter of the law and now the rebel gets a party? But Jesus’ point again is that what matters is not what we do but what our relationship with God is.
The older son is a picture of what many Christians are like today. For many Christians, the Christian faith is not so much a relationship with God as a set of things that you should do and be. You should be a good, loving, caring and moral person. You should do good things, do work in the church, do the right things with your family. Christianity for many is working hard in the fields but feeling like a slave instead of a child.
And then because we have worked so hard and devoted our time and energy to our Lord and Master, Jesus, then He had better reward us accordingly. Tim Keller writes, “You can avoid Jesus as Savior by keeping all the moral laws. If you do that, then you have ‘rights.’ God owes you answered prayers, and a good life, and a ticket to heaven when you die. You don’t need a Savior who pardons you by free grace, for you are your own Savior.” We want to be in control of our lives and what happens to us.
Moreover, if the rewards are not forthcoming, then we feel that we have reason to complain. “Lord, what’s the deal? Haven’t I been involved in church programs and activities, haven’t I done all the right things?” “I’m doing all kinds of work and it doesn’t seem to matter.” There is rage and confusion for older brothers instead of joy when things doing go well.
The problem is self-righteousness and that leads to all kinds of other issues and problems. It leads to feelings of being superior to others and when you feel superior it becomes very difficult to forgive others for doing things you would never do. It leads to attitudes of prejudice because good people only act a certain way and not like others.
And finally, we can end up being trapped in a performance type of Christianity. We try to live a good Christian life and try to do all the right things and it isn’t good enough.
In his book, The Spirit of the Disciplines, Dallas Willard tells of man by the name of Simeon Stylites who lived from 309 to 459 AD. He built a column six feet high in the Syrian desert and lived on it for some time. But he soon grew ashamed of its small height and found one sixty feet high, three feet across, with a railing to prevent him from falling off in his sleep.
Now with a warning to the potentially squeamish, listen to what Dallas Willard writes: “On this perch, Simeon lived uninterruptedly for 37 years, exposed to the rain, sun and cold. A ladder enabled disciples to take him food and remove his waste. He bound himself to the pillar by a rope; the rope became embedded in his flesh, which putrefied around it, and stank and teemed with worms. Simeon picked up the worms that fell from his sores and replaced them there, saying, ‘Eat what God has given you.’”
The problem is sixty feet isn’t enough; nothing is good enough! What we need to see is beautifully stated in the father’s response.
III Let’s look at The Father’s Grace.
Notice first of all that the father goes out to meet the older son in spite of the terrible offense to him. The father had every reason to be angry and cut the son off, just as he could have with the prodigal. But he goes out to him, just as he did with the prodigal son. He calls him his “child,” a term of dear compassion and tenderness as he accepts him as his son.
Not only that, notice that the father pleads with him to come in and join the party. The older son belongs there not because of the work he has done. He belongs there because he is the father’s son, his child.
Then the father explains the reasons for his actions with the younger son. First, the older son has not been forgotten. He still will receive all of his inheritance from the father’s estate. He still will receive all that has been promised to him.
But the father wants the older son to understand the basis of what he receives. It is not because he has been working so hard that he will be blessed. It is because he is the father’s son.
The same thing is true for the younger son. Based on what he did, he should have been made into a servant. But he is in fact a son and because of the father’s grace, he will be accepted and treated as one. The basis of the father’s actions is grace for the younger and older.
The point that Jesus is making is that both sons were rebellious. The younger was outward in his rebellion. He obviously rejected being a son, but he came back. The older son rebelled internally. He was hypocritical in that he lived with the father even though he didn’t feel like a son. Nevertheless, the father is willing to reach out in love and compassion to both. The younger gladly accepts the offer of grace and lives in it. What about the older?
Jesus deliberately leaves off the ending to this parable. Jesus is speaking to the Pharisees who were obsessed with keeping the law. They were deeply religious people, but they had lost the relationship with their Father. Jesus is inviting them to come back and to live in God’s grace.
The same invitation comes to us today as well and we would do well to heed it. God has poured out his grace on us abundantly and so we should live for him in that grace. It’s not about what we do, but it’s all about the outrageous, prodigal grace God shows to us.
IV. Our Need for Our Father’s Grace
We tend to live by works not by grace with similar resulting problems. We work very hard at the Christian life. There is, after all, a lot of work that needs to be done. I’m not disputing that at all and it is important work. The problem comes when we work not out of love and devotion but because we feel we have to in order to be a Christian.
And what’s worse is that when that begins, then we have fallen into a trap that keeps getting tighter and tighter because our work is never good enough. We read the Bible and pray, but we should read the Bible and pray more. We get involved but we should really be doing more. And when we don’t do more or don’t do things better or perfectly, as God really wants them, then we feel guilty and we despair.
We may be as obedient as we can imagine, but it will never be enough. The story is told of a rather nominal church member had lived with the philosophy that his good works would be more than enough to get him into heaven. One night he dreamed of the final judgment and was standing behind Mother Teresa. The saintly nun was called to stand before the Lord and this presumptuous sinner overheard God say, “Teresa, I was really expecting a lot more out of you.” We cannot impress God with how obedient we are for we all fall short of what God requires.
Instead we need to have God’s grace flowing abundantly in our lives every day. We need to understand that grace is not just a term that we find in the Bible, but a reality that we should experience in every part of every day. God ‘s grace should be a reality when you are taking care of your children. God’s grace should be a reality when you are working in your job. God’s grace should be a reality when you are making demands on yourself that no one else would expect from you.
Grace is something that should enable us to look at ourselves honestly but through God’s eyes. We aren’t perfect, but God already knows that and He accepts us anyway because of Jesus. We aren’t going to be able to do all the things that Christians are supposed to do, but that’s O.K. because God accepts us because of Jesus.
We aren’t going to be perfect spouses, parents, workers, bosses, children, whatever you are. God knows this too, but He accepts us anyway if we accept his gift of grace in Jesus. God’s grace says to us, “You will fall, but get up and keep on trying; I accept you because of Jesus, not because of what you are doing.” God’s grace says, “I know that you are sinners. That’s why Jesus came.”
We often say we believe God’s grace but sometimes find it hard to live in it in our daily lives. My mother came from the old school of math. Many years ago, we were talking about balancing the checkbook and I said how nice it is to have a calculator to do this job. She said that she uses a calculator as well but then said, “I still figure it out on paper after I’m done just to make sure the calculator did it right.” The calculator is nice to have, but she doesn’t really rely on it. It’s not as good as doing it yourself.
“It’s nice to have our Father’s grace but I had better do all the good stuff just to make sure.” It’s at that point that we have to hear our Father say, “Stop it now. Stop all the stuff that you think is making me happy and trying to earn my favor.” “I sent Jesus to take care of all of that and now you are my restored and dearly loved child.” “Come into the party and live a joyous love with me.”
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