Proverbs 3:1-10
New Year Wisdom
Rev. Jerry Hoek
Introduction:
There is always something significant about the transition from an old year to a new year. The old year is a time for reflecting on the past 12 months, remembering significant events in our lives. There used to be a time when the first few days of the New Year were spent trying to remember to write 2009 for the date instead of 2008. It is also a time for new beginnings. Perhaps it’s a time to try to make good on some previously un-kept resolutions. It is a time to look at the coming year and try to change things that need to be changing.
However, how do we handle all the changes? Sometimes we look at changes and we become afraid. The current economy is unsettling if not downright frightening. What do we do about a future that may be uncertain or perhaps even frightening? What guidelines do we use? Do we just do whatever seems best to us?
The proverbs we will read this morning contain some good advice for us as we enter a new year, perhaps a time of uncertainty. How are we to cope? Proverbs 3:1-10 gives 3 simply answers that we will look at this morning. Let’s read Proverbs 3:1-10.
I. Learn
II. Trust
III. Obey
I. First, we must Learn.
We see this advice in verses 1-4. At first, this advice seems to be just some good fatherly advice being passed down from father to son. Something like “Don’t take any wooden nickels.” “If you follow all the rules, then you will be wealthy and everyone will think well of you.” But these teachings of the father are not just bits of human wisdom. The father’s teaching is based firmly on God’s law.
The father’s teaching is his explanation of what God commands and what God has taught. If the son does what God commands in His word, then these blessings will be his. What is central to God’s teaching? Verse 3 says, “love and faithfulness.” God commands that man love God above all and his neighbor as himself. God also commands that man be totally committed to God. These two things should be central in the life of believer.
And the result of following this word of wisdom, is being richly blessed. Notice the blessings that the father gives. He will have long life and prosperity. He will have a good reputation among men and good favor in the eyes of God. These are beautiful things, but are they guaranteed to the one who is loving and faithful? We will discuss these blessings a bit later. But for now Solomon says, “Remember the lessons you have received and learn from them to live a life that is good and well-pleasing to God.”
It would be well for us as well at this time to reflect on this past year and remember and learn from the lessons of the past year. Hopefully, you have learned some things this past year. Perhaps a few things stand out in your mind. Something you learned and remembered from a Sunday School class or small group Bible study. Something you learned from your own devotional life. Perhaps something you heard in a sermon or experienced in a worship service.
I hope that we all have learned a lot and benefitted from the opportunities for learning and growth this past year. One tendency we all need to overcome is to hear something good and important, comment on it and then promptly fail to do anything about it. Remember what you have learned and keep on applying it.
However, also keep learning more and more in this coming year. Attend Sunday School classes, Small groups and worship services. Learn so that you can continue to grow.
And let’s reflect on our experiences as well in this past year. Some have made some important changes in their jobs or careers. Some have barely managed to hang on. We all have made all kinds of mistakes. Learn from these as well and press on in our life of faithfulness.
Remember the lessons we have learned and learn from them using God’s word. Rev. G. Hallock gives this example. A ship was wrecked. As the sailors were making their escape in small boats, suddenly two of them sprang overboard, swam back and entered the ship. They soon reappeared with something in their hands, and swam at great risk to their boats. They had forgotten to take their compass. Without the compass, they would be lost as they were in the middle of the sea.
God has given us a compass, so to speak, in His Word, and has given us many opportunities to know His will, His leading. Let’s not forget God’s Word that we’ve learned and what we will learn in the coming year. That’s the first word of advice.
II. A second word of advice is to Trust as we see in verses 5-6.
First, notice in whom we are to trust. We are to trust in the Lord. And this is not a belief in just some divine being or higher power. This is a trust in the Lord God of Israel, the God of the Bible. This is the Lord God who: created the entire universe and rules over it continually; who did marvelous, often unbelievable things, for his people Israel; who promised to save His people from their sin who then sent His Son into the world as a human being to bring those who believe in him eternal life and who is the One and only Ruler and King over all and who has all things firmly in His mighty hand.
This is the Lord Solomon urges us to place our trust in. There is no one else who is worthy of complete trust and devotion. And so Solomon says, “Trust in the Lord.”
But what does it mean specifically to trust? Literally, it means to fall forward, face down before someone. Now that may seem to be an odd definition at first. But think about it: you don’t do that with someone you don’t trust. If you were in a room with a known hardened criminal, face down at his feet would not be a preferred position for you to be in. He might hurt you, steal your money, or humiliate you.
One of the most humbling children’s messages I ever gave was on trust which was in this church. I asked a very young girl if she trusted me. She said she did. I asked her if she trusted me enough to fall and trust that I would catch her. She said she did. I said if you really trust me, then you should fall and believe that I’ll catch you. She said ok. So I stood behind her with my arms out and said “fall!” And she did! Forwards and landed on her face!
That is trust! Believing that someone is going to catch you when you fall and you won’t land on your face. I don’t think she would do that again because I didn’t catch her.
But the beautiful thing is that we can do that with God. We can trust him completely. We can fall down on our faces before him and he will not only not harm us, He will care for us. We can have that complete unreserved trust in the Lord knowing he will care for us.
Moreover, Solomon says that we must not lean on our own understanding. We should not rely or depend on our own skills and intelligence. One thing we like to do is get all involved in something and then if things get really messed up, we ask God to help out. We wait until there is nothing else we can do and say, “Well, all we can do now is pray.” That is not what Solomon means when he advises his readers to trust in the Lord with all your heart.
In verse 6, he says, “in all your ways acknowledge Him.” To “acknowledge” God is not simply to say, “Yes, God, I know you are there, always watching, I’ll call you when I need you.”
To “acknowledge” reflects an ongoing relationship between God and us. The word actually is “to know” — a key word which describes the covenant relationship between God and us. It reflects a close, caring relationship; one characterized by close communication and fellowship on a continual basis. To acknowledge God is to walk with him daily, making God your conscious companion whom you rely on and walk with daily. You trust in that ongoing relationship.
And the result of this close continual trust is even more blessings. God will lead, guide and direct us. And more than this, he will fulfill our lives. He will fill our lives with purpose and meaning. He will bring our lives to where they should be. Finally, Solomon takes this advice one step further and spells out in even more concretely how we are to walk with God and acknowledge Him.
III. We must Obey the Lord, which is what we see in verses 7-10.
We must demonstrate our trusting relationship with the Lord by obeying God in every part of our lives. “Fear the Lord and shun evil” is the way Solomon describes it. If we are to walk in a trusting relationship with the Lord, then we must turn to Him and we must fear him, respect and worship Him. And the way we can do this is to turn away from evil. This describes a continual realignment to God. We must renounce the old person and embrace the new person recreated to be like Christ.
If we are to live in a trust relationship with God, then we must seek out the things in our lives that are causing us problems living with God. Our tendency is to be selfish, greedy and focused on our own comforts and needs. We all have our own hidden secrets and sins. We must shun these things and turn to fear the Lord.
And we must seek to be obedient in absolutely every part of our lives. A small son and his father were taking a walk through a field in the country. In the far corner of the field they found a small patch of beautiful and fragrant flowers. The flowers were in the middle of weeds, almost completely hidden and unnoticed, yet these flowers were in full bloom and filled the air with their fresh fragrance. All of us have met persons unnoticed by many, but who in the middle of struggle and unlikely surroundings far from the center of attention live lives of beauty and fragrance. And living lives which seemed obscure they faithfully fulfilled God’s calling for them.
God’s question on the last day will not be, “How much were you noticed?” or even “How much did you do?” Rather, His question will be, “Were you faithful in fulfilling your calling where I placed you?” The words in verse 8 assure us that God will bless us for turning to Him.
But Solomon goes on to say that we must obey the Lord in the use of our material possessions as well. To trust in the Lord with all your hearts means that you trust him enough to take care of you that you are willing to give Him your first fruits. This refers to the ten percent tithe mentioned in the Bible. If you are going to live and walk with God in a truly trusting relationship, you must give first to God. This is not a call to give what you think you won’t need anyway for there is rarely any left over.
We give back to God from the first we receive. That includes gifts of money, time and our talents. We have a challenge in front of us this year financially. Remember to give of your first fruits to the Lord for the work of this church as well. I know it may be challenging but God promises to bless those who are faithful in giving as well.
Solomon’s point is that trust in the Lord is not just for spiritual things. It includes every part of life. The result, according to verse 10 is full barns and overflowing wine.
Now we should take just a minute to look at these blessings. It sounds like if we truly trust in the Lord, then according to verses 2, 4, 6, 8 and 10, our lives will be free from trouble and trial. We will have long healthy, happy lives, filled with material riches. We will never have to worry about things.
But this is simply not always true. Sometimes a young Christian’s life is tragically cut short. Many Christians today are living in absolute poverty. Many Christians are being oppressed and persecuted for their faith, not respected and admired by their fellow citizens. Christians too are often riddled with sickness and disease. The blessings in these verses are not always there for believers. However, let’s remember that these are not promises in the sense that they will be true for every single believer. These are general poetic descriptions of God’s blessings upon the ones who trust him. They are not individual promises, specific in detail and we must be careful not to view them as such. God must never be viewed merely as a sound investment: “If I tithe now, I will get more than what I had in the first place!”
God does promise, however, that if you trust in Him, obey him, He will bless you and keep you. It may not always be the way we want, but God will bless us if we trust in Him with all our hearts.
And so as we begin 2009, will we trust the Lord? As individuals, I challenge us to keep on learning, to keep on growing in your trusting, obedient relationship with God. There comes no promise that you will find earthly peace and prosperity. But we do have God’s promise that He will be with us, no matter what we go through. And he will direct everything to our ultimate good. Trust in that and trust in the Lord.
To ourselves as a church, I challenge us to trust the Lord this year. Let us be eager to be used by God in this year. Let us trust in Him that God will provide for us what we need. May we remember this word and follow it as we being this year of continued service to our God.
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